Frustrated Wife Makes Wonderful Realization after Picking a Fight Over Husband’s Endless Work as Farmer

Raising children and keeping your house clean and in order can be a big struggle, especially if you are also working on a full-time job – and this is something that many working moms are struggling with. It is a reality that many face every single day and one of the reasons why couple’s fight, especially if the woman feels that her partner is not helping out in the house and is only concerned with his own job.

This is exactly what Katie Spence Pugh feels. Her husband is a farmer who spends most of his waking hours in the field, especially during planting and harvest season; thus, she is left to care for the kids by herself, take them to trips on her own, and struggle to keep the house in order while also juggling a full-time career of her own.

One day, fed up with the things she is struggling with, she sent him a text message complaining about their life. But his response was something that she did not expect… and it melted her heart.

Here’s her story, as shared on Love What Matters:

Photo credit: Facebook / Katie Spence Pugh - Love What Matters
Photo credit: Facebook / Katie Spence Pugh – Love What Matters

I snapped this picture the other night at the end of a long day. I was tired. I was irritated.

I had sent my husband a text telling him that I knew it wouldn’t make a difference, but I wanted him to know that I was feeling fed up with how much he works and with all that I have to do everyday by myself. The full time job, cooking dinner, bathing kids, weekend trips without him, keeping up a home, you name it I was resenting it.

I have to have these little moments once (ok several times) throughout planting and harvest season.

Then this happened.

He came in, fixed his plate and sat down to eat all alone. He was tired. He was hot. He was exhausted. Rather than complain, he said he was sorry I was tired and felt that way. Charlotte joined him and talked his head off and even ate most of his dinner.

He didn’t complain. He shared, and it hit me. Do I wish that we saw him more than an hour or so a day? Yes. But, the love he has for his craft is something to envy.

Farmers work in a thankless profession. It’s always non GMO this and organic that, and let’s not even talk about the stress from Mother Nature. This is a man who is working to uphold 4 generations of blood sweat and tears and showing his children the value of hard work and discipline.

So while I felt frustrated, I really should have felt thankful. I got to sit down to dinner and hear all the stories from the day with the kids. I got to give them a bath and hear their squeals and giggles. I got to snuggle and love on them for 3 hours more than he did. He is the one sacrificing, not me.

We will keep on keeping on until the next rainy day when we get a few extra hours with our hard worker.

In the meantime, the next time you slip into that comfy cotton shirt or eat delicious farm fresh food, thank a farmer. Where would we be without them?”

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